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|Thursday, November 18th, 2010|
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|Tuesday, November 25th, 2008|
|Saturday, May 10th, 2008|
I figured my fellow small chested girls and small chested lovers would appreciate this. (:
Today my boyfriend and I had been sending dirty text messages to each other all day. He mentioned how he would like to send me nudes. Now, most of the time I'm comfortable with my 34As, but sometimes I get a little uneasy. Our (text) conversation went down like this.
Me: But I have no boobs
Him: They look great
Him: I'll take pics of my small weiner for you
Me: Your dick isn't small
Him: Ya huh
Me: It feels great to me ;)
Him: That's the point your boobies feel fine to me so show me them
He loves the way they feel and the way they look. He loves me the way I am and that makes me feel 100x more beautiful.
All you girls that are uncomfortable with how you are, please don't be. You'll find someone that will appreciate you for you body and your mind one day. I promise. (: Current Mood: happy
|Friday, April 18th, 2008|
Hi there flat cats J
I’m a 21 year old girl, pretty skinny and tall, blessed with a less than a handful’s AA cup*yay*
Besides that, I’m a plain jane, no beauty at all, I’m one of those grey mice who easily disappear in the crowd, unnoticed*sigh*Also I suffer some kind of Adhd, attention disorder blabla … which means I have to take rilatine, which caused me to lose even more weight then necessary and that sucked really hard :-/ I am single too, never had a boyfriend before and I don’t really need one at the moment. But all this doesn’t mean I’m unhappy, I can live with myself and my imperfections. I would never ever consider to get a boob job done, not even for a million of dollars, people just have to take me the way I am, its not all size that matters, it’s personality too you know. I’ll end with this quote, beautiful but true: “Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect, it means you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections”. Nobody is perfect, everyone is unique, in their own specific ways.
P.S: I always love to make friends and meet new people, soo come on over and add me if you like.
❣Warning❣ I’m a huge Elijah Wood fan and the stuff I write in my LJ is mainly Elijah related :p
XxX Greetz XxX Current Mood: curious
|Thursday, March 27th, 2008|
"Tits or GTFO"
So, I hate this phrase. Hate it. Even when it's supposedly used as a "joke". Any gamers here experienced it? (Non-gamers, this is when people in multi-players online games realise or suspect another player is a women, and then request them to post a picture of their tits or GetTheFuckOut)
I run a website for Channel 4 so thought I would post an article on the whole "women in computer games must have massive breasts"
issue because I'm sure it must annoy other people as much as me.
The writer is the lovely moveslikegiallo
if you liked her writing! Thx for reading.
|Wednesday, March 26th, 2008|
go to my journal
Hi please go to my journal and give me your opinon of my boobs!
Please it would be much appricated!
|Tuesday, October 23rd, 2007|
Hello fellow flat-chested ladies ^_^
I really feel like I need to talk.
I'm 17 years old, and I saw only one adult in my life having as small breasts as I do. I mean, I am really, but really flat. I have no shape. At all. Sometimes, depending on the angle of the light, we can see the shadow of a kind of shape, but that's it. If you knew how I hate those breasts...When I look in the mirror, I think "only a pedophile could look at me and like it." It's not even orange-shaped breasts, it's a tiny little amount of grease plus a big rose button on top. I like having cold water on my breasts because this way the rose button gets all tiny and hard, which is at least more respectable than when it is all big and ugly. All my life, I've been shooted with pictures of "what a woman is" and all I see told me I am wrong the way I am, which hurt me really, but really deep as the years passed one by one.
I dress in a japanese street fashion named lolita, because it's the only fashion were flat-chest is considered better than large boobs. I also dress decora, another japanese street fashion...japanese are flat-chested, so I feel better in their fashion, a little more "right", at least.
I used to have a very elegant boyfriend than was extremely different from the others, he hated "bitches", girls that would show off their curves to seduce. He thought that we have to get over that animal-side of humanity to continue evolving, and not regressing. Thanks to this mentality of him (and the fact that I was is first woman), I could believe it when he'd tell me that he loved me as I was, that he loved my body
. He would never look into another woman cleavage, even though he wouldn`t deny the beauty of the female body. So when we made love, I would accept, if there wasn't too much light, him to touch them and even kiss them and such. But still, I would squeeze the rose button in secret for it to be hard before he would go there as I still couldn't show them 100% natural, as I thought it was still terribly ugly, no matter how much he could love me as I am. He almost got rid of my complex, but then...we broke up. I thought "oh my god, where will I find such a man ever again?"
I cried so much, girls...so much...not really because I loved him, but because I lost the only person I could believe that would like my flat chest.
I found another marvelous man, but this time...it is its archenemy. Funny! It's the contrary. Less weird. He had more than twenty women before me. How can I even think he could appreciate my body after this? God...I know it is disgusting, and I do my best not to cry as I write you this as I am in a public place. I always keep my bra with him. I sleep with my bra, I make love with my bra, and when we took our shower together I would hide them with my hands. I cannot
show them to him. Thinking of doing so, in a bright light, just makes me freak out. I know he love me, I know he do and this much more than my last boyfriend, but I .c.a.n.n.o.t. show him. No even let him touch it. It's blocked. Even with my last boyfriend that I could believed would like them, I couldn't perfectly show him! So imagine with that man who looks at other women, that saw nice squishy round bouncy boobs and touch them and all. If you invited a prince who would have ate exotic fruits, tasty fish and delicious dessert all his life, would you serve him an empty plate with only a tiny, rotten pea in it? In secret, when I'm really depressed, I think that I should date a pedophile to at least get someone that LOVE MY
BREASTS more than OTHERS'!
I don't know what to do with my complex. I always look at other women`s boobs and it hurts me. Seeing an ad with a cleavage makes me angry/sad. I'd like not to care, I try, but it's not under my control. At least, when I wear my lolita fashion, I feel right.
It's the only way for me to feel better than larger breasted women.
And I feel angry when I see, with any kind of media, a representation of what is considered "small breasts". How about mine? If this is small, then what the heck are mine? I'm so hurt...everyday, I see hundreds of those. They always remind me of how I feel...incomplete
. Current Mood: depressed
|Friday, September 7th, 2007|
so the guy i'm with right now is an amazing boyfriend, but it's because he makes an effort to be, and it sort of breaks my heart. he's a good guy, and i get the impression he feels like his sexual desires aren't something he should focus too much on, say, to the detriment of having a normal healthy loving relationship/companionship. and i love that he's so mature in that way. but. that said. oh girls, it breaks my heart sometimes knowing the truth is he's definitely a boob man (like more than normal even), and he likes his girls super curvy all around (big boobs, big butt, tiny waist, curvy thighs, etc). he's really cool and i get the feeling he's...not quite ashamed but...feels he should have more unconventional taste, so he tries to suppress all this. he always talks about how black haired girls, nerdy girls, and asian girls are so cute, but then what actually turns him on is the typical plastic tan "teen"-looking porn star, and gigantic boobs no matter what else the girl's got going on.
i am the antithesis of all of that, and i don't even want to be that, you know? but it still wounds me that even when you think you've found a guy who really does
have unconventional taste, who might actually PREFER your type, you get smacked down again with "nope, not deep down, not really." i don't know...
i know there's nothing i can really do to help this situation out. and i know he loves me. i guess i just needed a place to vent. thanks for providing one.
|Wednesday, May 9th, 2007|
Hello, I just joined this community. I have small breasts(34A and sometimes 32B and rarely 34B. My size depends on type of bra.) I'm just now beginning to accept my body for the way it is. If they bounce, I'm happy. If they're squishy, I'm happy, and if my fiance loves them, I'm happy. Therefore, I'm happy! ^_^ I look forward to meeting new people and making new friends. Current Mood: calm
|Wednesday, December 6th, 2006|
Hi. I hate bras. The only reason I need to wear them is to cover my nipples. But I'm angry at having to do that. Everyone has nipples, why pretend they don't exist? I also hate fashion tabloid pages where they print faux pas pictures of celebrities who didn't bother putting a bra on before they left the house. When will it be fashionable and sexy to forgo the bra again? I've got perfect tiny round tits I'd love to show off under flimsy t-shirt cotton.
On the other hand, I love putting something lacy on for my husband. But that's different than demurely covering your nipples with "lightly padded" hard-wired elastic chastity belts and keeping it on ALL DAY. Usually the one I put on for Hubby comes off pretty quickly.
|Friday, July 7th, 2006|
Well, I thought I'd join this place, embarrassing though it is...
Well, I'm 16 and I'm a 34A (although according to the Next catalogue my breasts are actually too small for this. It seems to fit, though).
At the moment I hate my entire body, because of my small breasts and way too much hair in all the places it shouldn't be. Conventionally, I'm barely female. I tried masturbating once (rather unsuccessfully) and I wasn't sure if stuff was normal.
Its strange because when I was a kid I remember thinking: I hope I don't have big breasts because they'd get in the way all the time.
I wanted to be a boy then but that seemed to fade away at puberty. I think that seeing as I had such 'transsexual potential,' maybe I have some sort of hormonal imbalance.
But now, I go to an all girls grammar school, which full of girls who are more intelligent, more popular, nicer and more attractive than me. Well, most of them aren't more intelligent, but that doesn't seem to be valued at all in today's society. I also have extreme social phobia, so can't speak at all and act very self-consciously. This makes people think that I'm a retarded person who is insensitive to others emotions. I just makes me feel like shit. It has made me very depressed and even suicidal in the past.
Of course, my bra size is only a small contributor to my low self-esteem, but I still hate the way I'm treated for it.
I HATE society. Everyone is OBSESSED with gender. It makes me want to run off the nearest cliff. It's disgusting.
I've reconsidered my gender occasionally and don't think of myself as male or female. My sexuality is all over the damn place, and I'm either gay or bi or blah, I wish I didn't have to name the stupid thing!
I HATE SOCIETY'S OBSESSION WITH GENDER AND SEXUALITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, I'm lesbian(ish...at the moment)and I'm not obsessed with breasts. Maybe I could get a bitter, small-chested girlfriend like myself?
Getting off topic, but anyway; any comments would be helpful. Current Mood: embarrassed
|Saturday, March 25th, 2006|
I'm a small chested... flat chested... girl, 32AA (about, sometimes I fit a 32A, sometimes, rarely). I've been trying to find a new bra, and have not found ANYTHING ANYWHERE. Nobody seems to sell them anymore?
I don't mind comfortable demi bras, but I also like to have one of those fancy sillicone push up bras. I was working at VS for a year (which was a great thing for my confidence, really.) and had a bunch of bras from them, but they're all, as one might guess, too big (and my nice Very Sexy Push Up Convertible now has a torn out underwire, ruh roh!)
So, any suggestions for us? I know there's AA lingerie, but I'm nervous about fit. Since I haven't like, ever worn the right bra size. Does anyone know any actual stores?
|Thursday, December 1st, 2005|
community rules update?
I was looking around the other day and I saw that we have some male members in this community, but the rules still say that guys are not allowed to join. personally I like the old rules, but I have no problem if they're changed... will the rules be updated?
|Wednesday, November 23rd, 2005|
I'm a small chested girl (34 A on a good day) and I must say, since I've gotten my nipples pierced, I'm much more comfortable with my small breasts.
Honestly, every time I take off my shirt, I marvel my hoops.
I'm in love with my small chest. Let it be known!!!
|Tuesday, October 25th, 2005|
Just thought I'd share =)
So, I'm looking for a new bra. I want to order from Victoria's Secret, but didn't know how to properly measure myself. I looked it up on Yahoo and found out how. I measured above my chest - 34", I measured across my chest - 34"!!!! So, I should just buy a fucking training bra and be done with it. Better yet, I'll just buy some undershirts or wifebeaters.... Current Mood: amused
|Friday, October 14th, 2005|
I am looking for amateurs, male and female, to provide (nude or partially) pictures of themselves to put onto a new and sometimes wild website. This site will be for amateurs only. Please do not send professional pictures and no sex acts. This is a professionally done site, not a smut site. You must be 18 or older and your email address must accompany the picture. send to firstname.lastname@example.org
|Friday, July 29th, 2005|
Heyy. I just joined your community and I'm so glad I found it. For awhile I've felt really inadequate when it comes to the size of my chest. I'm about a 34A; 32A would maybe fit better sometimes. I've grown up with my best friend who has much larger breasts than myself and it's always been hard not to notice the looks and whistles she's got from guys when we've been out. However, I now know that this has more to do with the average British guy's mentality.
I also have another friend who has the same size breasts as myself and it's become so much fun to go shopping for underwear when we go to Belfast. Even today I bought a beautiful wee bra and shorts to match and just walking around my room in them made me feel so attractive. There's something so beautiful about having a small chest; something so natural and understated. That's my opinion anyway.
See I have this boyfriend and we've been with eachother for a while. I don't see him much but when we are alone I've always felt pretty self-concious about my breasts...now I realise that he loves me for me and not for my chest.
I just want to say thanks to this community and all the inspiring people in it because it's so nice to know that there are people just like me who I can gain even more confidence from! Current Mood: uplifted
|Friday, June 24th, 2005|
|Thursday, June 23rd, 2005|
Hi, I just found you! I'm 30 yrs old and wear a 34A bra, although the cup fits better in a 32A. Why is the cup size different?! My hubby LOVES my boobies. He thinks they are great. They are sensitive and he has been able to get me off just loving them!
Anyway, it's good to know there are so many of us out there! My friends are all average and never had to deal with the prom dress that didn't fit on top or the 6 bridemaids dresses that didn't fit on top or the wedding dress that has dimples in some of the pictures because it didn't quite fit on top! (but I'm not bitter)
Just thought I'd say hello.
|Friday, June 3rd, 2005|
x-posted to smalltits and flatisbeautiful
I'm new to these communities so I know I should probably introduce myself, but I'm posting just to share something I thought was pretty incredible.
I was browsing the two communities after I discovered them tonight and I saw confirmation of what had previously been a myth to me - the guy who actually prefers small breasts!!
I've had experience with the guy who doesn't really care, and the guy who sincerely loves your small breasts but it's his love for you as a person which makes any feature of yours appealing. While I totally
appreciate these types of guys, it was just so neat
to see guys saying that the smallness - in and of itself - is attractive to them!
But of course it's also nice to have a good self-image regardless of what guys or anyone else thinks... which is why the second part to this is even better.
I was changing for bed and washing up a bit, so shortly after reading the stuff in these communities I happened to be in the bathroom without a shirt on. I turned to the mirror, and for the very first time in my life I saw myself as beautiful not in spite of my breasts but because of them.
It is very freeing to be able to say "I have great breasts!!" Thanks so much. :-)
|Tuesday, April 26th, 2005|
Uh, what a great community!
Well I don't know... shall I introduce myself?
I'm 19 and I've got A-70 (um, European Size). I didn't like my boob size in the beginning, but now I think they're fine. Big boobs just wouldn't fit to my tiny body ;-)
And besides my boyfriend is quite happy with them, too. *g*
There are really some advantages, e.g. I can wear childrens clothes which are cheaper anyway. ;-)(they have some nice things!)
|Tuesday, March 1st, 2005|
the best thing ever is being able to go without a bra even in cold weather.
anyways, does anyone know if estrostep(sp?), a birth control pill, increases your size? Current Mood: amused
|Friday, April 2nd, 2004|
I thought this was funny. Read the lil poem at the end! Current Mood: amused
|Saturday, April 3rd, 2004|
I saw "pencil test" under interests.. and I'm just surious about what that is... so.. what is it? :-p Current Mood: curious
|Monday, March 8th, 2004|
This is my first post in this community, but I have been reading for a little while now. I'm almost 18 and am a size 34A. I still hold out hope to one day perhaps grow a little, but for the most part I don't let it bother me. Tomorrow begins my search for a prom dress and as excited as I am to have all sorts of girlish fun shopping, I hate finding beautiful dresses that do not fit up top. Last year, I pulled a sneaky little move and bought the size 7 top with the size 9 bottom, to accomodate my larger posterior and my small bust.
That was just my little venting session, thanks.
|Saturday, February 14th, 2004|
Happy Valentine's everyone!
I've just got to talk a bit. Here's the story. The boy who sits next to me on my bus is always talking to my boobies. ^^; Yes, talking to them. Every day he asks "So can I play with them today?" and every day I say "No, stop talking to me or i'll shove you into the window again" but he never fails to continue asking. But the point of this is, lately my boyfriend has been teasing me a bit for being small, and I've gotten aggravated because I'll laugh with him and everything but if I tease him about umm, lets say his weight or something, (he's my teddy bear and I love him ;)) and he'll go all ballistic on me and get pissy. Meanwhile, every day on the way home from my high school, this boy Ryan is constantly calling my breasts cute and perfectly perky and adorable and he's not joking with me, he's serious, and at the same time it unnerves me and makes me want to throw him out the bus window for trying to feel me up, it flatters me to no end ;) But what do I do about the boyfriend who lacks such admiration for my chesty? ... Talk about Ryan at least once a week. He starts appreciating them more when he's trying to claim them all to himself ;)
Boys are so strange. ^_^; *hugs self* Anyways, I hope you all are out with someone who is showering you with affection right now ^_^ or at least in good company. happy v-day!! Current Mood: thoughtful
|Thursday, January 15th, 2004|
Yay! I'm new!
I read almost all of the entries to this community in one sitting when I stumbled upon it. I'm a 34 (sometimes 32) A, and this community made me insanely happy! lol! I wasnt comfortable with myself until recently, I'm in an odd long-distance relationship that started online and will be becoming physical this summer (he's coming to FL to visit and then we plan on living together to go to college.. etc) and I've always been worried that once he sees my body in all its glory (or lack thereof) he'd lose interest physically. But seeing all of the members on this community and their egos and beautiful confidence in what they have (or dont have ;)) I've totally backed off of that mindset! I doubt I'll be growing more anytime soon, I've pretty much given up hope on that, but now I'm trying to think in terms of how what I've got can be better sometimes (I'm bi, and I actually prefer my girls rather small-chested as well...), instead of always wishing that one day I'd wake up with at least a 36 B. (I'd be satisfied. lol. totally satisfied.) I'm thin and kind of tall, so I guess it isnt that bad. But yeah. I'm rambling! :P sorry.
Basically, I'm really glad I joined this community. :) All your confidence is breathtakingly beautiful. Current Mood: artistic
|Monday, October 27th, 2003|
Just thought I'd say hello since I'm new here. I have 34B size boobs and I've really grown to love them. When I was younger, I felt bad that I didn't have a big chest and didn't see how guys could be attracted to me. When I was in high school, I started getting very serious about dancing, and it was there that I realized having small boobs is a very
good thing...big jigglers make dancing unbareable!
I'm sick of the way our society thinks women need a have big breasts. Not all of us want to be juggy girls or hooters waitresses. Not that I have any thing against big boobs (at lot fo my friends have 'em), I just don't understand why society thinks we all need to be built the same way. Anyway, glad I joined! Current Mood: sick
|Saturday, October 18th, 2003|
My boyfriend loves my boobs! *throws confetti* Current Mood: happy
|Friday, May 30th, 2003|
hey all, im new here and wanna thank firegrrl for letting me join!! :) a little about me...well my breast issues didnt begin till around 5th grade or so when girls started wearing training bras and i was still completely flat. i didnt have to wear a bra till 7th grade and from then on, i can wear anything from a 32A-32B, depending on the bra. i was always so damn selfconscious about it and for years have planned on getting implants whenever i had the money...until about 3 months ago. this past semester i have come to some realizations and figured some stuff out about myself and now i am perfectly happy about with my breasts...well not *perfectly* but i have begun to embrace my androgynous form and finally feel comfortable with my breasts. yay! so this is why i joined, i think this is a great opportunity to meet some awesome people!! :) glad to meetcha all...
|Saturday, May 24th, 2003|
I made up this quick survey that I thought you may like to take. Don't worry, 'tis not a typical survey, it's a breast survey! Don't answer anything that you feel uncomfortable answering :)
Favourite Bra brand:
What the perfect bra would look like:
If your breasts had names, what would they be?:
At any time in your life, were you uncomfortable with your breast size?:
If so, when did you realize that they are beautiful as they are?:
Advice/words that you would like to give to women who are uncomfortable with their breast size: Current Mood: content
|Sunday, May 18th, 2003|
i don't know why, but last night i was enticed to watch that new show "naked news" to be honest, it was pretty bad (not that i was really expecting much to begin with). But i was thrilled to see that while there was a girl or two with huge, obviously fake breats, the majority of the women "news anchors" were very small, mostly A-cupped. Current Mood: happy
|Sunday, March 16th, 2003|
Today in People
I saw an ad for Vanity Fair lingerie featuring a fresh-faced brunette who couldn't have been more than a B-cup. I was pleased.
|Thursday, January 30th, 2003|
Why do small chested women feel bad about themselves when many of them worshipped celebs of today are far from large..? Think of Gwen Stefani, Jennifer Lopez, Shirley Manson, Liz Phair, Björk, Milla Jovovich, Portia de Rossi and Claire Danes to name a few.
|Sunday, January 19th, 2003|
i'm ashlee and i'm new here. i have size 34a breasts.
countless times i've had guys i barely know [usually classmates] flat out tell me my chest is small. like i'm not worth anything because of it. that's one of the things i hate more than anything.
i think i'm lucky that i have a boyfriend who loves my breasts just the way they are. he dreads the fact that i'm only sixteen and that they could grow larger. he doesn't want them any bigger. i love that. though i'd like just a little more there [mostly so i could fill out some clothing], i'm happy with my breasts. i'd rather have them small than large. back pain doesn't sound like fun to me.
well, all i have left to say is that i'm happy to be a part of this community.
Hello everybody. I am new here, and happy to find a small breast community that isn't just a bunch of people showing their breasts. One thing that I don't understand is why small chested girls are suddenly called flat chested these days? There is nothing at all wrong with a flat chest, I just don't like when AA, A and B cup women are called that simply because it isn't true.
I am a 32 A (sometimes B). I was wishing that I had a bigger chest for awhile, but now I don't care anymore. I don't wear extremely
padded and gel filled bras,I just wear push-up with a wee bit of padding (which I would wear no matter what my size). Sometimes I wish that they would put a small breasted woman as a "sexy woman" in one of those irritating television commercials, or have a smaller chested Victoria's Secret model... but eh well.
I do not think that certain womens magazines and Girls gone wild commercials are really helping small chested women feel good about themselves. They put so much pressure on women to have large "man-pleasing" breasts. Not all men even prefer larger breasts. and about those few men who really care and put down small breasts... the hell with them.
~Tina Current Mood: calm
|Saturday, December 21st, 2002|
I just saw a comedian on Comedy Central (a male comedian) say that he doesn't get why girls get breast implants. "You have other stuff! You can have small boobs. You're still a woman!" Current Mood: amused
|Wednesday, October 9th, 2002|
Hi everyone. :-) I just joined. I have tiny tits and a generally petite body. There are disadvantages to that, like difficulty finding beautiful bras, but mostly I'm fine being small. Current Mood: okay
|Thursday, October 3rd, 2002|
Im too sensitive....I suppose
My feelings were really hurt yesterday. I know this shouldnt bother me but, one of my friends came over yesterday to help me clean my house and we were talking about boobs and everything. I mean this girl has some big ones but we were talking about how guys find boobs attractive. I honestly think that if I was a dude then I wouldnt find boobs attractive but guys do and thats the thing. Well, I wear a 32 B and I feel like I would probably be more noticed if I had bigger ones. I also feel like my boyfriend would probably want me to get bigger ones. I have never felt this insecure about my breasts. I have always accepted them and I was also always glad to have small ones but now this is changing. Please let me know if anyone feels this as well. Current Mood: disappointed
|Monday, September 2nd, 2002|
i'm 21 years old, and at 5'6" 110 pounds i have a breast size range that goes from 32a to 34b depending on the bra.
as a teenager, i was very ashamed of my body and thought that there was no way anyone could find me beautiful. i hid my form in baggy clothes and avoided any kind of sexual contact. i didn't think there was a place in society for someone built like me.
i've gradually grown more and more comfortable with my body, and am now at the place i am today. i love my body and my small breasts. i'm a tiny girl. my body is proportionate. if my breasts were any larger than a full b, i would look ridiculous and top heavy. people assume that skinny means curveless. i'm skinny and proud of my slight proportionate curves.
i love being able to go without a bra. i typically go without one whenever possible. i can't imagine what it would be like to be hindered by large breasts and not be able to feel as free and active as i do. granted, my boobs have acquired a slight bounce to them, but in some ways i enjoy it. i love wearing skimpy tank tops in the summer heat without a bra. i've recently gotten over the whole "ack my nipples are showing thing". who cares? nipples are beautiful and i should not have to compromise my own comfort.
my small tits garner lots of positive attention from my lovers. while i sometimes wonder what it would be like to be a more societally desirable large breasted woman (or even a cup size larger), i don't think i would permanently trade mine in for another pair. i love the perky sensuality they possess, and as a bisexual i prefer smaller perky breasts on other women too. i'm not saying there is anything wrong with large tits, they just don't meet my personal preference. i find small to be more aesthetically pleasing in many ways.
anyway, i ramble. perhaps i will post a tasteful picture sometime for members only. i was so pleased to find such a positive and male voyeuristic free community. hello to all of you.
also, i'm wondering.. what do you people think of the word "tatas" as used for breasts? i personally just think it is a ridiculous and funny word, and i use it facetiously. others seem to find it offensive, and my male friends even think it conjures up disturbing imagery. could someone explain this to me, please? Current Mood: cheerful
|Thursday, August 29th, 2002|
So how does one find their bra size besides spending two hours in the goodness-awful lingerie department? And what if you're smaller than an "A" but need a real bra, and not one of those flouncy girl training bras? What do you do then?
|Tuesday, August 20th, 2002|
Jay S (Courtney's Jay) and his seven-year-old, Keagen came with me to Toronto on Friday morning to help me move. I only have a G1 licence, so Jay picked up and drove the U-Haul.
I suck at moving. I have way more billions of books than I should, and I'm embarrassingly weak. So I can only carry one milkcrate full of books at a time. This makes me look like a great big slacker.
So I convinced Jay to take Keagen downtown (the kid is nuts about MuchMusic) while I packed up the truck. It was yukky-stikky-gross-hot. I was pouring water over my head after each trip, not caring how soaked my clothing got. And then I succumbed to the inevitable and changed into a skirt (I wonder if guys realize how much cooler a skirt is than shorts. So much less material around your legs) and took off my tanktop.
This of course, produced a few teenaged boys. They suddenly appeared on the porch next door, staring at me as I lumbered back and forth, carrying a solitary milkcrate each trip (I'm such a weakling!).
"What, you've never seen tits before?" I called to them, peeved. They'd have a much better view if they came over and helped me, I thought to myself.
"It's just unusual," one replied.
"Well, if you were doing this by yourself out here in this heat, you'd be topless, too." I told them, heading back into the house for another crate.
They must have seen the truth in this statement, because when I emerged from the house they had disappeared. (Either that or their mother had called them in away from the brazen hussy.)
Later, a car stopped and idled right behind the U-Haul as I arranged the crates inside. It took me about ten minutes. When I finished, I hopped out of the U-Haul and headed for the house. The car started up and drove away, but not before I heard the passenger say, head out of the window, "That was beautiful."
I really am not self-conscious at all about people seeing my boobs. It doesn't make any sense to me that the difference between male and female chests should render one type of chest any more obsene or sexually titillating (bad pun, I know) than the other. But I really don't know how to react to the attention this gets. It doesn't embarrass or flatter me, it doesn't offend me (because of course, it is unusual). I would say that it doesn't affect me, except that I'm thinking and writing about it.
Oh, the funny part is when Keagen and Jay came back. I was almost finished loading everything in (yay, me!) when they returned.
"You have to put your shirt on" Keagen remarked mildly.
"Keagen!" Jay scolded, embarrassed. "She does not!" (Jay has been Courtney's partner for almost seven years. He's used to me.)
But I put my shirt on. I wasn't sure what Wendy (Keagen's mum) would think. My brazenness has limits, after all.
|Tuesday, July 30th, 2002|
This pisses me off:
#1. Happy with your body? You shouldn't be! You're an emergency!
Do *You* Need A Boob Job?
#2. Surgery or a few products should be able to help you with that boob problem you didn't know you had!
Do *You* Need A Boob Job?
#3 You're boobs are societally sanctioned, but the time to start worrying about them is now!
Do *You* Need A Boob Job?
#4 And honey, you're just fat! How do you get through a door sideways?
Do *You* Need A Boob Job?
Of course, there's this handy little disclaimer on the site, designed no doubt, to shut up the feminists:This quiz is a parody of wacked out cultural standards! I do not recommend getting a breast job or surgery at all!
But it doesn't look like much of a parody to me. The site is full of links to porn sites, labelled "see how your breasts measure up." And there are popup pyramid-dating-schemes which start opening when you reach the results page.
I took a couple other quizzes on the site to see if they had the same ads and links. It seems that the ads are related to the content of the quiz. The "what kind of car are you" quiz has automobile-related advertizing; the "what sex sign are you" quiz has astrology and dating service ads; and the "do you need a boob job" quiz has things like this:
Best selling natural breast enhancer Bloussant contains Saw Palmetto Extract, Fennel Seed, and Don Quai.
Some parody. Looks like it's perpetuating those "whacked out cultural standards" for profit, not parodying them.
I took out the links to the quiz because I didn't want to give them or their advertizers any more traffic. But I'm sure you've all seen it.
|Thursday, July 18th, 2002|
i'm new, names athena and yippy skippy doo for small tits. :)
i have (not-just-self-christened) small tits. i'm a 36A. With the one 36B cheap four dollar jcpenney bra. i like them. sometimes people tell me they aren't that small, but that's usually guys, and guys don't care as long as they're they're breasts, right? i have the smallest chest out of all my friends. the rest go as follows: 34DD, 38C, 36C, 36C and one girl who might be the same as me, but her breasts are definitely bigger. these girls are the ones that make the comments about my "flat chest." conversations usually go something like this...
me: my boob hurts.
them: athena, you don't have any boobs.
(and the girls that are saying this are usually the ones with the C cup. my friend with the DD never makes any comments like that... funny how that works.)
but anyway, i went through puberty when i was pretty young (ten) and all that, so my breasts have been fully grown for well... a long time. (i'm almost 16 now.)
and i like them.
i like cute little bikinis that fit just right (up top anyway... the not-flat stomach and all that gets in the way of things), i like wearing push up bras and not looking like i'm trying to shove one of my tits into my eye...
yes, i like it. :)
|Thursday, July 11th, 2002|
Current Mood: flirty
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|Friday, May 24th, 2002|
I hope this makes sense
Maybe it's because now I have cable TV or maybe it's the arrival of summer, but I've noticed more ads/movies/tv shows that emphasize big breasts with small waists. I don't mind seeing it once in a while, but am I being too sensitive? I look at movies and tv shows from a few years ago and I don't see that same emphasize (or at least as much). I know that men have some physical appearence pressures in our society, but I am just so sick of seeing Girls Gone Wild
ads or stupid beer commercials like Captian Morgan or tv shows like The Man Show
. They make men look stupid and women look like, well, sex objects. I saw something on-line a "study" that "proved" that the bigger a woman's breasts, the less intelligent she was. What the hell? I also get sick of the debate of, do men prefer large breasts. Who cares? I don't. Besides, you can't put all men into one catagory. I also saw something on the liquid generation site, which does the Britney Spears's breasts thing, something called "whose boobs?". When it came to Gwyneth Paltrow, they compared her breasts to a perseverant boy. Grrrr!
I also wanted to make it clear that in my last post about Spears, I think it's sad that so much attention is given to her breasts. I posted because of something I saw in a journal in which the person wrote, "I don't have Britney Spears breasts!" as in "I'm not huge like her". I feel sorry for the poor girl Britney, so much pressure is put on her. The real mystery is the media and how women's bodies are marketed. I think it is hard for any young women period, not to mention a female celebrity. I think it is easy for us to look at a woman who is famous and criticize her if she got implants or changed her physical appearence. I know I have in the past. Now it just makes me sad to think of all those young women who are told they are not good enough and feel they have to change the way they look (or are pressured to). Current Mood: angry
|Wednesday, May 22nd, 2002|
ive been on birth control for about a week now, ortho tri-cyclen that is. although 20 and longtime sexually active ive never been on any sort of birth control (not counting condoms, etc of course) ive noticed that my breasts are getting larger and somewhat more sensitive. sensitive in a tingly almost uncomfortable manner. is this normal? i enjoy my small teats, dont take them from me! Current Mood: curious